As internationally bestselling author Rabbi Shmuley Boteach explains, what often leads to infidelity is too much trust and complacency, which causes routine, boredom, and waning attraction. Going beyond the themes introduced in Kosher Sex, Boteach's "10 Commandments of Kosher Adultery" realistically define why affairs happen, how to recognize what needs they fill for the adulterer, and then recognizing and fulfilling those needs at home instead.
Learn to view your spouse's attractive qualities as an outsider would, and how to overcome communication barriers so that both partners can divulge their fears, fantasies, and desires safely. Even if you are not accustomed to thinking of yourself as an Erotic being, there are such feelings in all of us, and within marriage you can explore and develop that side of yourself in a healthy, mutually supportive environment, eliminating the temptation to find it elsewhere.
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